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RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 3:54 pm
by rhondabrwn
Thanks guys, your support and kindness are greatly appreciated.
This came out of nowhere... there was no doubt in my mind that he would be around at least another 10 years... and then he's gone
Really drives home the frailty of human existence. I might not have the 10 to 20 years left that I was counting on... life could end tomorrow [:(]
I think it's time to do some serious "end of life" planning.
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 6:20 pm
by Vasquez
My condolences
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 11:19 pm
by CGGrognard
My condolences to you Rhonda.
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 11:27 pm
by radic202
My sincerest sympathies my friend!
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Wed May 13, 2015 1:26 am
by terje439
Sorry to hear that Rhonda, condolances [:(]
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Wed May 13, 2015 1:45 am
by Jones944
Your pain is shared by many. I nearly lost my father this weekend (though a full recovery is now his likely result) and the feelings of helplessness combined with the need to be strong strike very deep.
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Wed May 13, 2015 3:35 am
by milkweg
Sounds like he lived a good life, RIP.
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Wed May 13, 2015 3:59 pm
by Josh
So sorry to hear that Rhonda, my condolences to you and your family.
I wish we would have met your brother here on the forum with all his knowledge and wisdom. Life is frail indeed.
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Wed May 13, 2015 6:38 pm
by parusski
Sorry Rhonda, but you made me chuckle at his refusal to modernize. We most likely did miss out on things he could have added to the Civil War thread.
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Wed May 13, 2015 9:57 pm
by rhondabrwn
ORIGINAL: parusski
Sorry Rhonda, but you made me chuckle at his refusal to modernize. We most likely did miss out on things he could have added to the Civil War thread.
It was kind of a joke in the family to be honest. He also refused to learn to drive a car and relied on his wife, kids, and the bus for transportation.
The sad thing is that if he been computer literate we would probably have been exchanging notes and updates on a daily basis instead of a letter every couple of years. I guess that loss of contact over the years is what really hurts. His daughter, Tracy, did take a laptop in to his retirement home recently and let him view my Facebook timeline and photos to bring him up to date on my life. That made me feel somewhat better.
He would have been such an asset for the forums... like having Shelby Foote sharing all his folksy civil war anecdotes. Norman had that same style in his teaching as Shelby has in his books and interviews... always a personal story behind every event. I wish I had been a few years older when we did all our battlefield tours and could have better memories of them.
Heck, I wish we could have done a battlefield tour as adults... but our lives were too separate and too busy for that to have ever been a possibility. And now just a "what it" footnote to the Brown family histories.
Once again, I really appreciate all the kind comments and support in this difficult time [&o]
RE: A Sad Day
Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 8:56 pm
by parusski
ORIGINAL: rhondabrwn
ORIGINAL: parusski
Sorry Rhonda, but you made me chuckle at his refusal to modernize. We most likely did miss out on things he could have added to the Civil War thread.
It was kind of a joke in the family to be honest. He also refused to learn to drive a car and relied on his wife, kids, and the bus for transportation.
The sad thing is that if he been computer literate we would probably have been exchanging notes and updates on a daily basis instead of a letter every couple of years. I guess that loss of contact over the years is what really hurts. His daughter, Tracy, did take a laptop in to his retirement home recently and let him view my Facebook timeline and photos to bring him up to date on my life. That made me feel somewhat better.
He would have been such an asset for the forums... like having Shelby Foote sharing all his folksy civil war anecdotes. Norman had that same style in his teaching as Shelby has in his books and interviews... always a personal story behind every event. I wish I had been a few years older when we did all our battlefield tours and could have better memories of them.
Heck, I wish we could have done a battlefield tour as adults... but our lives were too separate and too busy for that to have ever been a possibility. And now just a "what it" footnote to the Brown family histories.
Once again, I really appreciate all the kind comments and support in this difficult time [&o]
Well I he had been our "Shelby Foote".