Well, I've bought WITE at day 1 and played lets say... 3 hours!

Ok, I'm a bad, really bad, player, but I do like to get into uber complicated games, still, I feel like WITE si WAY too complicated (for me).
Let me explain.
I get the most basic elements of the game, I can even ending up playing a decent game using the basics, you know:
1) moving troops around;
2) attacking;
3) advancing and stuff like this.
It's just that... I feel like I'm missing MOST of the COOL aspects of the game! At the end of all, I feel I'm just moving counters around and attacking other counters.
Is there any tips experience players can give me to enjoy the game at its fullest? May sound stupid question, but this really look like an outstanding game, and I'm just not enjoing!
My biggest problem is to understand information correctly and sort the ones that are important for the game, I just feel overwhelmed. E.g. Air attack, I manually select an air unit to perform an attack, I only want that unit to attack, ok? I perform the attack, and I see that like other 300 planes from other airbases joined the attack, and there's black lines all over the maps showing from which bases they came from... I mean, why?
This is just an example of the many "What is going on" moments I have while playing the game.
Sorry if this message doesn't make too much sense. Feel free to not answer and/or mocking me! [:)]
Thanks,
Ricroma