Originally posted by Veldor
Not refering to you specifically in any of this but..
"Kiddies" listen to much of the same music as say someone in their twenties, even thirties.. And even compared to those that dont the music they listen too is still the same as when they were kiddies.. Games aren't any different other than the pyschological and socialogical association that they are strickly for kids.
In your book an "Adult" who plays Everquest or C&C is being immature whereas someone playing a "respectable" wargame is merely engaging in an advanced historical simulation. Two words.. Pysch 101.. I'm not in denial about it, neither should anyone else be. We play games, and love them.. So what?
There are probably more 15yr olds that can beat me at Chess than those that are older. Yeah it sucks to look over and see some kid looking at the same game/cd/movie/clothes/whatever that you are.. But get a grip. If the games you like are really all that more "advanced in interest" than would it not be an EXCELLENT thing that more young people start to get interested in them and play them? Or would that suddenley make us all feel even more childish for playing the games..
All of the above is EXACTLY why wargamers have an "arrogant" aura about themselves... Most gamers play many different types of games.. Wargamers tend to stick STRICKLY to wargames and build this "elitism" around it exactly as you said.. as if its all so far beyond the "average" folk and kiddies...
I don't know where you get all this. If teenagers want to mess with the same stuff when they get to be adults, that's how teenagers have always been, myself included. I take some measure of pride, however, in my ability to have grown and refined my tastes and abilities.
I don't "have a book," and offered no comment about Everquest et al. or the maturity level of those who play it. I merely said,
"There is nothing arrogant about defending the integrity of your hobby against a suggestion that your interest is no more advanced than that of 'kiddies.'" The games I play are different from these, and I want them to remain so on the basis of their sophistication and subjects.
I don't care how many 15-year-olds can beat you at chess. There are not 10 in the world who can beat me, and I honor those who can - not because they are 15-year-olds, but because of their understanding of, and dedication to, chess. When you take it seriously, it means something. And the possibility of honing your skills to the sharp point of excellence is a large part of what makes it fun for you - again, if you take it seriously.
You need not trot out "Psych 101" to me. I left that course behind a long time ago at the very beginning of my journey through academia into a fully developed professional career.
I heartily hope that excellent young people get interested in excellent games. I am sure they will. The masses? I could care.
So y'all go ahead. I'll "stick STRICKLY" to what interests me. I said nothing about "elitism" or building any such thing "around" anything else. Only you can feel childish.
Yes, complex simulations are, and always have been, outside the interest range of "average" folk and kiddies. Becoming good at playing them is an endeavor only those who understand excellence undertake. As Dylan said, "Most likely you'll go your way and I'll go mine."