ORIGINAL: crsutton
Well, I think the key to finding an opponent that you can rely on is just keep reading this board. I for one will choose carefully and try to find somebody who reflects my playing needs. And, you can be pretty much assured that if the person has been posting on this board for a long time, he/she will be around to play a game for a good while.
There are excellent players who who I have a high opinion of that I will not challenge because they have different views as to how the game should be played than I. But I would say that there are at least a dozen or more posters on this board that I know I would enjoy playing. Canoe is one. Of course, he would have to play the Japanese...[;)]
One thing I am not going to do is go to the opponents wanted section and just play the first guy who posts a challenge. I am too gun shy to try that anymore.
By the way, that is how I found my current opponent, Viberpol, who has been banging away with me for three years now. Had no idea who he was. But that one did work out pretty good.
Agree CrSutton, but, as you just stated in your last sentence, the opponent wanted forum may work just fine. There are TONS of players out there who don't post on the forum for whatever reason and many of them, i bet, are relieable opponents.
But i get your point...this game is like a wedding and you have to be carefull of which partener you chose... but, also, we don't have to forget that new players are the real treasure of this game. Without them we are like a Panda in a zoo...
Each of us started at some point. Each of us has been a newby that noone knew.
When i started to play i simply bought the game and asked in the opponent wanted forum...and found Rader and we ended up where you all know... so, let's keep on giving new guys a chance!