general consensus is A6M2 tore them apart during Philipines / DEI campaigns
and during a big part of 1942 over New Guinea
A consensus of whom according to what records?
but besides the AVG, good pilots were in short supply on the allied side
Based on what criteria?
so it means a lot more time is spent firing, and this is compensated by the
larger number of attack positions achieved
What makes you think that Zeroes were in attack positions against Wildcats more often than not? I think the, errm, technical aspects you have discussed in general were all important. And I'm not talking about EXP ratings specifically because I suspect that they're an uncalibrated fudge factor indexed to nothing in the real world.
The general lesson from WW2 was that speed tactics were superior to turning engagements. That did not appreciably change until the advent of high speed aams. Heck, for all I know it's still about high speed. Get in, shoot, get out. But I can't say how fire and forget aams have changed things.
I can say this. Numerically, it cannot be true that the Japanese pilots were better and their planes better. When you look at CV vs CV engagements, most of which occurred at the edge of the F4F's safe operational radius and well within the A6Ms safe radius, the F4Fs shot down 1.8 Zeroes for each F4F shot down by Zeroes.
Jimmy Thach faulted the wildcat and claimed that the "favorable results" that USN pilots had achieved through August 1942 were because USN pilots were better. James Flatley said the Wildcat was actually pretty good, and mentioned the various ways of deceiving Zero drivers into overshooting, or climbing too close to a Wildcat.
I'm not sure how that affects one's claims about superiority in general terms. I'd say that the A6M drivers and F4F drivers were probably approximately equal in their abilities, and probably the superior deflection shooting of F4F drivers and their more durable a.c. meant that they tended to win these encounters, over the course of 1942. But there were enough OTHER considerations that in no particular engagement was there any sort of certainty of outcome either way.
Show me a fellow who rejects statistical analysis a priori and I'll show you a fellow who has no knowledge of statistics.
Didn't we have this conversation already?