Bernie: First of all I'd like to preface this with stating that in the following you will find you and I in error on two different points; one which may be almost enough to defeat my point, but more on that later. First your last post:
Charles, you are the only person I can think off off-hand who is so eager to mount their soapbox that they are willing to continue a debate even after someone has agreed with them.
Agreeing on one point, as I view it, and I did have more than one point, is not agreement. So you'll post warnings, but you don't seem to agree that the forum has no place for material that should require warnings in the first place. But more on this point later...
As for the content of your reply, aren't you being just a bit condescending here?
I'm sure I thought of my parents's correction in the same way at times.
You also seem to be wanting to turn this into a personal attack, grasping at the straw of what is contained in my profile. That is not very mature behavior for someone as knowledgeable and educated as you seem to be.
Prepare for a likely long explanation. Are your hobbies really straws? Was that profile a joke? It's not like I sicked the FBI on you or anything extraordinary like that. You provided that information of your own free will I take, and now, that there is at least one person who may have at earlier glance thought not a lot about it, 'might' be seeing a pattern, you want to claim I'm snooping? Doesn't wash. Hey, I got lots of goodies too, and I'm not going to fidgit off of them if someone has a problem with them. Maybe more thought into who you would rather please and displease is in order when filling those profiles out, yes?
Personal attack? Well it is pretty weak if it is one, yes? Let me explain something to you. I treasure a decent forum. I've seen a lot of them go south with the advent of those "girlie" photo posters. No matter how untopical such a subject is to that community, they do tend top spring up quite frequently, thereby ruining my interest. Ruining my interest not only in the forums, but quite possibly in the products they may have had as well. There are a number of vices out there. Alcoholism isn't one of mine, perhaps it is yours.
Anyway, as I alluded to before, sadly many of us men are attacked, whether we consent or not, with the vice of impurity in some form. Sadly, it is one that tortures me from time to time. So my mission is to find the safest places possible to keep it as far in the distance as possible. Your links (and of course you or someone else doing worse), and Igotmilk's choice of avatar threathen that peace. Are all of the internet, basically secular forums, so un-disciplined that they must always give way to this always creeping in and being ignored? I don't want these forums to go south, and in fact I consider the AoW forum a mistake. I don't think it's possible to ask everybody to be gentlemanly in the other forums, while letting them be porn merchants or whatever else strikes their fancy, elsewhere on the same site.
I thought, because I did see some sense of correction on the other-than-AoW forums, that your dip into girlie photos wouldn't be tolerated here, and no, I haven't spotted this thread to the moderators, for one thing because I've now found out one, almost contradictory facet of reality here: they don't have any ethical standards to their forums as far as I can tell. I was going to pull up some nifty rules to show what you likely violated, and yet, as decent as the-non-AoW forums have been for so long, there doesn't seem to be any. So maybe my point of not holding women up for lust, or indeed of censorship, or whatever makes sense in an orderly society, is completely without foundation in these forums. Nonetheless, and I didn't see you agreeing on this point, but for the sake of weak brothers like me, much as I wouldn't even mention alcohol in the presence of an alcoholic, know that despite your may or may not having this weakness towards impurity too, could you understand that there a GREAT number of us out here like that, and that you only torture us with your prodding? You saw the kind of reaction you got, be it "art" or not. You goaded them on, and got exactly the sort of reaction you expected (apart from mine of course). I hope you'll consider the kind of cheap popularity that is, or maybe they're all in one the joke too? There had to be something wrong when instantly one of the posters closed it for fear of business retaliation.
Venus ge Milo is unlikely to elicit such a response.
If someone is at work, using company time and resources to browse the Matrix forums, then they are just as likely to be fired for goofing off and wasting company time no matter what is on the screen. At least they would be if they were working in my company.
Incorrect. The company I work with used to be as you describe, but somewhere along the way we got bought out by a European company. While their standards of decency in many cases are lower than ours, and it seems ours can't get lower, they have transferred to some extent their love for leisure, thank God. Save us from the barbarians who claim their manhood or whatever their backstabbing is supposed to achieve, on selling people out who are using the internet to not do things strictly in the interests of the company. Of course what many of these morons fail to understand, that doing things like that tends to make those people more adept with technology like using computers, therefore saving their computer-illiterate selves from the hell their leisure (having water cooler talks for "their" goofing off) has created for them. It just so happens that the company may benefit MORE, from me or anyone else in IT using the computer more, when that's our blasted job. Want to know how to download something to a place besides the default directory? Oh, sorry bud, I was too busy reading manuals on the IBM 3494 to help you with that. I'm just as pc computer illiterate as you are (yuck yuck).
My company changed the policy where it now states you are allowed to use the internet for non-business purposes as long as it doesn't interfere with your job. I can't think of a better stated policy; just excellent, but like many things, you have to watch out for the Old Guard trying to get back to the days of them being able to goof off via water cooler talks, while those who could hardly water cooler talk at all, often because of the particular job itself, suddenly has to give up all social life during work for the sake of such hypocrites. I don't see our policy lasting too long, but at least it's where it ought to be at the moment. I wish all companies had that policy and stuck to it.
The only possible exception I could see to that statement is if the person worked at a job where browsing the forums could be reasonably considered part of their duties. As to how likely it is that they'd actually be fired, as opposed to being reprimanded, it would depend on their past history in the company, wouldn't it?
Non-union down here Bernie. They can fire you on any whim, at any time. If you have an internet policy as my company does, you can at least throw company policy back in their face. While in most cases, 'art' or not, one nude lady seen on the screen is unlikely to garner termination, it is entirely possible, especially if that company has a good number of complainers milling about all the time. Sometimes that past history can be one lousy incident. In any event, if one of your incidents suddenly was 'art' on the screen, you can indeed be guaranteed of the most stringent scrutiny from there on out.
So, what it boils down to is, was the material offensive? As you've pointed out, in a rather roundabout way, anything can be considered offensive to some groups. I'm sure there are groups who would scream bloody murder over the fact someone was actually using a computer, even more so that they actually used it to connect to The Internet! (shudder!)
True, but part of the problem, especially since it seems we're talking real living women here (instead of the statues) is that it's far too close to being taken the wrong way to be 'approved', and if your point was entirely blameless, I would ask why you referred to it in such a risque sense, and then why did the otheres respond such as to confirm that? So, clearly, the sight of what you linked to there, would clearly illicit that sort of work response. In short it's irresponsible to think nobody should be offended or will. For all the it's just innocent art I seem to be getting from you, there's no
Venus de Milo type response to back it, like, "Ah, tis a beautiful work of art. Notice the veins, the broken arms (ha ha) and so forth." No the response is more of the T&A variety.
It is not my place to be a censor for the planet, and all the people thereon. If you have sensibilities so fragile that you need such protection then you should be carefully reading what you click on.
That's precisely what I did, but a lot of people put trust in the posters here, because, believe it or not, this forum hasn't turned into some hedonist lust fest just yet. It is only he who gives resistance to something, that can tell you that what he opposes has any strength. As GK Chesterton once put it: ""A dead thing can go with the stream, but only a living thing can go against it." - Everlasting Man, 1925"
Lastly, I'd like to point out the sheer (to me at least) lunacy of a debate on the "evils" of nudity in a forum dedicated to war and conflict simulation! It is "acceptable" to discuss and recreate battles in which thousands died, were wounded, and untold atrocities were committed, yet it is unacceptable to view something that is innocent and beautiful.
This isn't Atrocity Central is it? The game has no atrocity elements in it, does it? Sure the topic may be discussed, but I've yet to see people post links to look over all the lovely pictures of corpses, much less to make some seeming vow of love for their state as you did for your little nudeys. At least it would be more "on topic", than nudity (art or not), wouldn't it? You want to show such art with such comments, then there's plenty of 'art' forums like that about the internet. I was rather hoping such things would stay out of this website, but as Chesterton might observe, there seems to be so many corpses around here, it'll only get worse.
If you wish to continue this debate, I suggest we do so via email so as not to stray so far from the function and purpose of this forum.
And the purpose and function of SPWAW is to show nudity, art or not??????? Isn't it more to the point of the forum, to try to defend what one thinks it to be? In having this very discussion with you, one of the stinging points that should be ringing in your ears is that the links aren't in a place where they belong. Ignore my ethical objections if you wish, you fail in your main premise to be concerned with being on-topic. To make some attempt to try to remind people that this forum isn't Nudity-Central is very on-topic indeed; like my reasoning or not.