ORIGINAL: Terminus
ORIGINAL: Apollo11
ORIGINAL: Terminus
Good Thread, I didn't tell her that! I'm not suicidal.
What I did was such a stupid accident, but she won't accept it.
Yesterday, I went into her office at the end of the day to say goodbye. We'd gotten to the stage where I could hug her in a friendly way, and so I leaned in to do that, and when I went to put my cheek against hers I hadn't turned my face enough, and my lips brushed against her face. She thinks I was trying to kiss her, which I was not, believe me.
I knew it advance that she couldn't handle being called "honey" or "sweetie" by anybody but her fiancee, so the idea that I would attempt to kiss her on the cheek or anywhere else... Well, she thinks I did it on purpose.
It's so stupid, and I would give my left leg (including FrankenToe) to have it never had happened...[:(][:(][:(][:(][:(][:(][:(][:(]
Kristian, I told you before... it is much better this way... don't befriend married women... it can only lead to very big trouble some day... just leave them to their husbands...
In any case, if something gets wrong, you as a "third wheel" will always be to blame and always be the "guilty party" - please beware!
That has not been my experience, Leo. As I said, this was a mistake, not deliberate.
Either way, home from work today and just as well: there was a big fire over night at one of the train stations I commute through and the whole schedule has been, shall we say, discombobulated.
I understand Kristian... I am only citing extreme caution...
In other words all I am saying is that befriending married woman is not good - not for you - not for her - not for her husband...
Even "hugging her in a friendly way" with best intentions can be interpreted on God knows how many ways... you might know what you are doing but she might get "worm inside her head" and start thinking about you the way you didn't intend... someone might see you and gossips might start... and then there is her husband... imagine yourself married and with wife - now imagine someone befriending her at her work and giving her friendly hugs... you would not feel entirely comfortable knowing that wouldn't you...
Leo "Apollo11"
P.S.
And we know what happened to Nik... [:(]
