ORIGINAL: Chickenboy
ORIGINAL: jeffk3510
I hear ya on politics with families..
Yeah, here too. [:(]
It's a shame though. We're reduced to not being able to discuss money, politics, religion or sex with family out of 'politeness'. Discussing nothing of meaning. Not challenging the other's thoughts or formation of ideas, not exploring how we came to be different.
So-for the people that are closest to us in the world-we talk about banal pleasantries and non-confrontational topics and while away our fleeting time on this planet together. There's gotta be a better way...
I love it too. My family of seven, excluding sibling in laws and wife..have seven very different political, financial, and family structure ideas.
The only thing my two brothers and I like to do is get together with my dad and play a 2x2 scramble of golf every chance we get and a war board game. We enjoy watching and discussing the Royals and Chiefs I guess... and that is all 100% negative.. there just isn't anything positive about KC sports for the last 25 years..dead serious. Outside of that, my dad and I talk business non stop.. older brother doesn't care for it, and younger brother has an arogence that is difficult to talk about anything with really. It's his opinion or no one elses. He's an odd one to put a label on...he's my best friend outside of my wife and two boys.. difficult to explain I guess.
My sisters get together with my wife and sister in law and thats about it for family get togethers. Great times, fun times, loving times, however, we just dont talk about certain things. The girls do their thing, us guys do ours.
I love my wifes side of the family, but get togethers with them get old. I work in the private busines sector, all of them public school system. Automatically I am a weasel...out for myself only in their eyes. Can you say Halo Effect?
I am guessing all families have similarities in this respect.. We all love and get along with every memeber of our extended families, both sides. Not a lot of families are that fortunate. I love each and every one of them, we just know things you can and cant say, a little of some go a long ways, and what keeps everyone happy I guess...
Life is tough. The sooner you realize that, the easier it will be.