FOW Issue

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looking at the forum i think some other people have had issues with FOW

i;m trying to play an MP game and FOW is on in the options but when i load it to take my turn, FOW is off and i can see all the Axis units (This is Italy 43-45)

I've loaded a mirror game against the AI and FOW is on fine in that game

Posted the MP game about 3 times now and same issue - it is on for Axis bit off for Allies when i go into the game to take a turn - but on for both when i post the game up - and when i check options for the game without going in to take a turn, it shows FOW on for both Axis and Allies

Anybody come across something similar and know how to resolve it?