ORIGINAL: Subchaser
It’s hard to analyze damage reports of all ships sunk during the war, so I took only IJN heavy cruisers damage reports. All 18 warship were lost due
Fatal damage caused by torpedoes – 10
Fatal damage caused by own torpedoes explosion – 3
Fatal damage caused by near-misses bombs – 3
Fatal damage caused by artillery fire – 1
Fatal damage caused by direct hit bombs – 1
Not sure how well the IJN Heavy Cruiser stat applies across all platforms, but assuming it's roughly representative (and probably on the high side), what we see is that the AE naval damage model does not accurately account for 17% of the ship losses. That's not a huge number, and one could probably find many other examples where the AE models are off from RL by more than 17%. So to put this all in perspective, yes, it would be nice if near misses were modeled and explicitly reported as such, but its definitely not a major issue.
Nice discussion, by the way, and congrats to all the participants for explicitly noting that a discussion is all this is, and not a "demand" aimed at the dev team.